As men and women in the dating world we all have stories of the untold crazy dates that we all go through.. I've got many since I was looking for something specific and that was to settle down here is my horrible story that will make you cringe at the fact that guys are really like that!!! Hard to believe I know lol
I call him Crackberry Guy
I was about 22 years old and I had my first son , this was on a break me and my husband had for about 6 months .. and I thought maybe it would be good if I change my surroundings and go and try some dating.. just casual.. I know in the end I wanted serious so I looked for people who wanted the same things I did.. I had this mutual friend I knew for a long time so I trusted his expertise in how good this friend he was recommended to me to try and go on a date. I was nervous and unsure so I just talked to this guy over Skype and text and phone calls for about a week.. I assumed since the conversation was pretty good and we connected on all levels that it would be nice if he came over for dinner and drinks and maybe a movie.. I told him that if the connection was their I would sleep with him .. but it would take me time to let my guard down so please don't expect me to be a one night stand. He agreed and told me I didn't need to worry he wasn't the guy to just sleep with someone and leave. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and agreed to dinner.
We agreed he would come over to my house on a Friday night around 9 when my son had gone to sleep. so during that whole week I was nervous so I cleaned my house top to bottom, at the time I was living in a one bedroom basement suite, I had 5 roommates upstairs in the 4 bedrooms upstairs. He met me at the door and things were immediately awkward , he seemed kinda weird , I tried to have a small conversation and he seemed to shove me off and kept checking his blackberry. he was so interested in his phone it was annoying and I didn't want to say .. "Could you please put that down", I was to nice .. or at least I tried to be lol . Finally about 3 hours in the date he decided to put his phone down which I thought finally hes done work.. since he claimed he was a professional Dj so safe to say I tried to let it go, but ... then he picked up his laptop :( ugh bust already as I thought lol
He finally put that away at about 2 hours ... .it was about 1pm by this time and I was completely bored out of this date and knew it truly sucked.. so I was thinking hmm since this guy was such an ass how can I make this date go faster and less stupid. so I said lets watch a movie .. he agreed but their was a problem.. as soon as I took the DVD out of the case to put in the DVD player.. he flipped and said "DONT TAKE IT OUT OF THE CASE THAT WAY .. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOUR DOING".. He was absolutely pissed that I apparently didn't take it out the way he wanted.. I felt this was very odd to bitch about since he didn't really know me and I didn't really think their was a certain way to take a DVD out of the case, He seemed bothered for awhile . The movie went on and he suddenly decided to open up a little and chat about the things that meant good things to him.
Suddenly out of nowhere he decided to tickle me.. but this wasn't your normal tickling .. he was tickling really hard around my ribs.. I laughed to try and not make so much of a fuss I couldn't wait until he left.. I said listen I am crawling in to bed at 4 am .. if you want to come you can .. if not you can go home.. He loudly pronounced that he could go somewhere else.. so I said ok then why don't you.. he said no no I will stay a bit.. He asked me point blank if he could have a blowjob.. so I agreed .. I didn't agree cause he and I had a great connection I agreed cause.. well .. honestly I was horny .. I put all this work and was getting a slap in the face so why not use him before he leaves.. no shame in the game right . lol
I did my work and this guy came in less than 5 minutes couldn't hold it at all...then when I went for the rest of the "fun" wink wink .. he pushed my head away and said "nope that's enough" I was shocked I was like wow this is it???? seriously.. He proceeded to grab his blackberry from the side of the bed he was laying on and texted people.. was on facebook.. I layed their still dressed and so bored with this date.. so annoyed.. and kinda hurt this guy was such an ass.. as I watched him in the dark spend hours on his phone.. he ignored me the whole time.. not saying a word. acted like I was completely invisible. He fell asleep with his blackberry in his hands and held on to it and slept with it all night lmfao.
When he woke up at 7 am .. he jumped out of bed.. got his laptop bag and got his cell phone.. and left .. it was such a relief to have this looser leave my home. I should have said something very sooner but I didn't I wanted to see if he would change. I called my friend who told me this guy would be great for me a few days later.. and he was telling me what happened on my HORRIFIC date.. he told me that the guy called him the day after our date and told him.. that my house was a horrible mess.. I had tons of dishes in the sink... my house was weird (I lived in a half a million dollar home in the estates section of my city), he said that we slept together and I was horrible.. he said I then threw him out in the morning.. WHAT A LIAR ...
Here is the kicker.. He said I wear granny panties lol.. AWWWW baby you seriously think as a woman I wear those lol.. here is a picture to prove to the world.. what is exactly under my pants why u ask .. cause I have no shame.. I am way to honest
My advice if I could go back in time and re visit this time in my life.. I would be strong and tell him exactly what I thought as soon as he acted this way..
I found out.. he played many women the same derogitoritive way .. I also found out he wasn't a dj .. he had no job.. and just moved here from BC.. Funny how the story changes when you talk to their friends.. Another X on my stupid guys list lol
Stay Strong..and never let a guy treat you as worthless.. until the next story XOXO LOLA
28 year old Mom of 3 under 6 (2 boys 1 girl), TTC baby #4, Married to my soul mate, Photographer, nail artist, amazon reviewer, fashion addict, Looking to make a postive impact on this world one story at a time. I am looking to inspire people with love and peace