What is one thing you would do differently if you didn't become a mom?
At the age of 17 I was getting ready to move to Australia, I felt it was calling me .. I felt like I needed to start my career as a a photographer over their . its my favorite place in the world .. I had a friend where I worked (in retail) where she saved for 2 years and left with barley anything to start a better life to live her dreams , I was inspired, she was so full of freedom and peace. its what I needed... but I ended up traveling alone for 2 years and moved a few places but never settled down , I tried dating a little bit and then settled down with someone for 5 years when I came back to my home town. (that failed miserably lol ), but I felt like I needed to stay and I then settled down with my current husband and haven't looked back since.
How often do you go over the speed limit?
When I first started driving I was a speed demon , it was really fun and I loved the rush , as I got older I have learned that you can not be a fool and do these stupid things lol.. (I crashed my first car, it got written off .. scary) so now I barley speed... guess you can say I'm way to nervous to get in to an accident with my family , so I now follow the rules .
When you dream how old are you? and what are you doing?
I am standing beside the beach , feeling the warm air brush through my hair, as I am watching the sunset , I am about 30/40 ... I'm feeling the hot sand in between my toes, listening to the waves crash upon the beach
the other happy place I go to in my dreams is I am walking in a field of flowers , I am wearing a white sundress , and bare feet as I have my arms spread side to side and I have the biggest smile on my face. this brings me the most peace .
How important to you to look really good?
I can not say that I dress up everyday , I can not say that I put makeup on everyday, sometimes pajamas are just fine for me. I think as the next generation we are squashing society by making the assumption that you need to look a certain way , all the time.. people don't understand that to do our makeup, hair and clothing all perfect takes time, and as parents as college students as business women we don't have time to be that perfect. I believe that people need to be able to be happy with themselves with or without makeup on. I think people need to stop judging people so harshly.
We need to show others that its ok to be whatever they want to be.. this standard where girls are starving themselves to brittle bones to fit in to that Chanel dress that only comes in a size 2 , is physiologically turning people against each other. People need to remember that effort is good for our self esteem yes, but you can put your sweats on and do basic makeup and still look beautiful .
Do you think people are born intelligent or do you think someone can learn intelligence?
I believe people are born intelligent , I truly think that their is a little spark in those who are intelligent , that when people look at them they say their is just something about that person but I cant put my finger on it .. that's what it is .. they are something special .
Have you ever thought of adopting a child ? if so why or why not?
Yes I love the idea of adopting children , their was a point in my life where I was told by doctors I couldn't have my own children . (although they were liars) a part of me would love to foster kids.. I really think is something I'm meant to do in life.
Who was more strict your mom or your dad?
My mom forsure!!!! my dad had his moments
28 year old Mom of 3 under 6 (2 boys 1 girl), TTC baby #4, Married to my soul mate, Photographer, nail artist, amazon reviewer, fashion addict, Looking to make a postive impact on this world one story at a time. I am looking to inspire people with love and peace